How sexual is my kink?
There’s been quite a bit of talk lately about whether kink is sexual and it’s got me wondering how much of my…
Category: Sexuality
Am I Queer enough?
Thinking “I’m not queer enough” is apparently a problem for many in the queer community of which I’m now a part of…
Queer and Loving It!
This is a follow up to “Am I in or out?” In summary, after 30+ years of denial I realized that I’m…
Am I in or out?
I’m what society would call “middle aged”. I’m of no interest to most advertisers as I’ve left the most lucrative demographics behind.…
Caress
I started writing the first version of this, a D/s take on “caress,” and part way through realised that I have a…
My split attraction model
I never assumed I was straight and you’d think that, therefore, I would have had a very simple and clear understanding of…
On display
“I’d love to put you on display like that.” Words guaranteed to send me even further into a submissive mush. They were…