Category: Thoughts

How sexual is my kink?

How sexual is my kink?

There’s been quite a bit of talk lately about whether kink is sexual and it’s got me wondering how much of my…

My oral issue.

I’ve been thinking about and trying (and mostly failing) to work on a specific hard limit of mine for a while now…

All of me

All of me

Continuing my kink isn’t therapy (except when it is) series, I want to share my experience with kink, self acceptance and mental…

Am I Queer enough?

Am I Queer enough?

Thinking “I’m not queer enough” is apparently a problem for many in the queer community of which I’m now a part of…

Queer and Loving It!

Queer and Loving It!

This is a follow up to “Am I in or out?” In summary, after 30+ years of denial I realized that I’m…

Queer

Queer

I know it’s controversial and I totally respect people who don’t like the reclaiming of Queer but me? I love it. Queer…