How sexual is my kink?
There’s been quite a bit of talk lately about whether kink is sexual and it’s got me wondering how much of my…
Category: Thoughts
Stubborn submissives #NoTrueWay
I’ve been wanting to take part in the No True Way link up for bloody ever and finally here I am. I’m…
My oral issue.
I’ve been thinking about and trying (and mostly failing) to work on a specific hard limit of mine for a while now…
When you’re a crotchety old man
You asked if I would still love you when you’re a crotchety old man and I said yes, which is true but…
All of me
Continuing my kink isn’t therapy (except when it is) series, I want to share my experience with kink, self acceptance and mental…
Kink isn’t therapy (except when it is)
When the entire world feels like it’s against me and nothing will go right, my submission offers a space where none of…
Am I Queer enough?
Thinking “I’m not queer enough” is apparently a problem for many in the queer community of which I’m now a part of…
Queer and Loving It!
This is a follow up to “Am I in or out?” In summary, after 30+ years of denial I realized that I’m…
Queer
I know it’s controversial and I totally respect people who don’t like the reclaiming of Queer but me? I love it. Queer…
What The Taming of Red Riding taught me about my submission
I recently read The Taming of Red Riding, it was very good and I enjoyed it very much. Fabulous kinky, escapist reading…