All of me
Continuing my kink isn’t therapy (except when it is) series, I want to share my experience with kink, self acceptance and mental…
Category: Thoughts
Kink isn’t therapy (except when it is)
When the entire world feels like it’s against me and nothing will go right, my submission offers a space where none of…
Am I Queer enough?
Thinking “I’m not queer enough” is apparently a problem for many in the queer community of which I’m now a part of…
Queer and Loving It!
This is a follow up to “Am I in or out?” In summary, after 30+ years of denial I realized that I’m…
Queer
I know it’s controversial and I totally respect people who don’t like the reclaiming of Queer but me? I love it. Queer…
What The Taming of Red Riding taught me about my submission
I recently read The Taming of Red Riding, it was very good and I enjoyed it very much. Fabulous kinky, escapist reading…
A little shame
I’ve always been “a little bit little.” When I first got into kink and BDSM I didn’t realise it, mostly because I…
Am I in or out?
I’m what society would call “middle aged”. I’m of no interest to most advertisers as I’ve left the most lucrative demographics behind.…
Caress
I started writing the first version of this, a D/s take on “caress,” and part way through realised that I have a…
My split attraction model
I never assumed I was straight and you’d think that, therefore, I would have had a very simple and clear understanding of…