Queer
I know it’s controversial and I totally respect people who don’t like the reclaiming of Queer but me? I love it. Queer…
Category: Thoughts
What The Taming of Red Riding taught me about my submission
I recently read The Taming of Red Riding, it was very good and I enjoyed it very much. Fabulous kinky, escapist reading…
A little shame
I’ve always been “a little bit little.” When I first got into kink and BDSM I didn’t realise it, mostly because I…
Am I in or out?
I’m what society would call “middle aged”. I’m of no interest to most advertisers as I’ve left the most lucrative demographics behind.…
Caress
I started writing the first version of this, a D/s take on “caress,” and part way through realised that I have a…
My split attraction model
I never assumed I was straight and you’d think that, therefore, I would have had a very simple and clear understanding of…
On display
“I’d love to put you on display like that.” Words guaranteed to send me even further into a submissive mush. They were…
Collaring and LDR
Every time I get out of a long distance relationship I swear I will never do long distance again. It sucks. And…