Category: Thoughts

Queer

Queer

I know it’s controversial and I totally respect people who don’t like the reclaiming of Queer but me? I love it. Queer…

A little shame

A little shame

I’ve always been “a little bit little.” When I first got into kink and BDSM I didn’t realise it, mostly because I…

Am I in or out?

Am I in or out?

I’m what society would call “middle aged”. I’m of no interest to most advertisers as I’ve left the most lucrative demographics behind.…

Caress

Caress

I started writing the first version of this, a D/s take on “caress,” and part way through realised that I have a…

My split attraction model

My split attraction model

I never assumed I was straight and you’d think that, therefore, I would have had a very simple and clear understanding of…

On display

On display

“I’d love to put you on display like that.” Words guaranteed to send me even further into a submissive mush. They were…

Collaring and LDR

Collaring and LDR

Every time I get out of a long distance relationship I swear I will never do long distance again. It sucks. And…